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Month: August 2021

Does Your Doctor Make You Feel Comfortable And Safe?

Feel Better With A Doctor Who You Feel Comfortable With

Your relationship with your doctor can determine the type of care you get from him or her.

Being comfortable and able to talk honestly with your doctor is the best way I have found.

If you need more help understanding good patient/doctor relationships watch this helpful video on what to do and not to do.

Watch it now: Were your appointments like this for you?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_RVaUV7XJ8o

Summary Of Doctor/Patient Relationships By:

Doctor Please:

  • Don’t rush
  • Don’t be late! Apologize if you are
  • Clean the room between patients
  • Introduce the people in the room
  • Be polite when speaking to patients
  • Don’t use jargon
  • Use words appropriate for the patient’s level of understanding
  • Don’t be distracted.
  • Use eye contact

DB: Having a life time of medical intervention I can say I can relate to all of the above experiences and worse, but also balanced with great relationships with doctor/patient relationships.

Self- educating yourself with assertiveness can be very helpful to know what to expect.

Once you have found the doctor you can relate to, try to stick with them for your future appointments, with the aim of improving your health. Try not to attend appointments only for ‘what is wrong’.

The appointments I have with my GP now are mostly for confirming the diagnosis I researched through self-education. So, when I present solutions through inquiry, I get to confirm what I have researched.

My life is so much more pleasant now with my doctor/patient relationships.

When I see a new doctor I respectfully listen and learn, confirming silently if my research was correct.

There is always plenty to learn in each appointment, while flourishing our doctor/patient relationship.

My most challenging relationships with doctors were times when I had no research or knowledge on the diagnosis. Through this lack of research I felt much more susceptible, helpless and anxious.

If it happens my research doesn’t match the doctor’s information I am open to the new information. Returning home I research deeply with my trusted Doctors online, mostly trained in Functional Medicine.

My next appointment is then more comfortable, having the privilege of making my own informed decision, knowing the ultimate decision was my own.

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When You Need To Make Your Own Individual Meals

Having Fun Creating New Meals For You

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zBcrQ9UF9zU

Home Cooking Is The Best:

Summary By:

Ten Main Benefits of cooking at home:

  1. Saving money-
  • Main reason to cook at home
  • control of what you shop for and
  • spend store sales and coupons
  • portion control while learning to cook
  • make and freeze meals
  • always having something on hand in case you need “fast food”

2. Knowing exactly what’s in the food you’re eating-

  • Knowing exactly what’s in the food you’re eating
  • life saver for allergies
  • high blood pressure and migraines
  • by removing salt and MSG from your diet can help

3. A Balanced diet –

  • Consume less calories
  • carbohydrates
  • less sugar and
  • less fats in those who don’t cook

4. Being an educated “Consumer” –

  • Making healthy recipes
  • learning about food and nutrition and
  • calorie counts through a good food database
  • helping you to eat in a healthier manner

5. Staying Heart-Healthy –

  • You are what you eat
  • so a balanced diet full of nutrients can help you best stay healthy and slim
  • prevent high blood sugar leading to insulin resistance and Type 2 Diabetes
  • cook your own food to help be ‘heart smart’

6. “Slow Food” Verses “Fast Food” –

  • Eating slowly to eat less
  • feeling full on less food intake
  • as it takes 20 minutes for your stomach to register as full
  • studies show that fat and fiber fill you up
  • with 30% less of the food you usually eat

7. Go For Filling Foods Low In Calories and Cost-

  • Feeling stuffed after a restaurant meal after soup and salad
  • which are cheap foods full of water and fiber
  • make your own healthy soups and salads
  • without using a creamy soup base or
  • a creamy dressing making you feel full before the entree arrives
  • or try the Italian way of eating the salad at the end of the meal
  • helping you to feel full and satisfied
  • it also helps you feel less cravings for dessert

8. Controlled Portions –

  • Use a kitchen scale and measuring cup when cooking
  • while looking up the caloric and nutrient values of the recipe
  • dividing it up into portions suitable for your diet

9. Food Safety –

  • Food borne illnesses are everywhere.
  • keep yourself and your family safe
  • by keeping your kitchen and hands immaculately clean

10. Food Freedom

  • Cooking at home allows you to make gluten-free
  • meat-free or dairy-free as you choose
  • with experience your meals will improve with practice
  • with online recipes
  • tried and proven to be successful
  • digital cookbooks are available on Amazon
  • helping you to become a pro in the kitchen in no time
  • another benefit is making and eating together as a family

DB: I have been a home cook for decades now. I greatly benefited by transitioning from traditional foods to an alkaline diet/vegetarian prescribed by my doctor.

Transitioning to an individualized diet mostly in the form of Paleo cooking has benefited me with anti-aging meals keeping me looking younger than expected biologically.

Yet another benefit of home cooking as well is AIP meals, Autoimmune Protocol, which is more specific but very helpful to study.

I live between both cooking styles.

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Successful Circadian Rhythms Help Us To Be Better Sleepers

Sleep Better By Understanding Circadian Rhythm Sleep Disorders

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3OvIFN6Gr9c&t=1s

Body Clock Disorders: External and internal sleep cycles

Summary by:

Five Types of Circadian Rhythm Sleep Disorders:

Delayed Phase Sleep Disorder:

  • Flexible schedulers can sleep when they want to. The drawback is that it can take them into late morning awaking or early afternoon

Advanced Phase Sleep Disorder:

  • This is the opposite problem. Sleepy early in the evening, sleeping from 7 pm-11 pm with difficulty sleeping through the night with a choppy sleep, interrupted sleep schedule.
  • Noisy households also affect sleep timing schedules making it not possible to sleep when you want to resulting in dragging. This can make interacting with loved ones challenging when you can’t sleep when you want to.

Non-24 hour Sleep Wake Disorder:

  • Longer body clock up to 25 hours. You might sleep later every single night resulting in a day/night reversal which also messes up your meal schedule.
  • Shift Work and
  • Jet Lag

DB: I discovered I have experienced all the first three. Predominantly I have issues with my flexible schedule sleeping when I want. So I have recognized this making measures to benefit my sleep/meal schedule with success.

It’s good to learn about these cycles, even seeing them as a disorder. Once you learn about it, gain knowledge to enable you to make an informed decision to improve your life style and health.

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Striving To Make Your Identity Normal Can Make You Happy

Making my identity normal enough for me makes me happy

Summary by:

Identity and Chronic Illness

  • Chronic Illness can have a profound impact on our identity
  • I feel like saying: “This isn’t me. How did I come to be like this?”
  • Can’t perform our regular roles in society.
  • Source of focused identity rather than the illness
  • Disruption of self with chronic illnesses

Illness Identity:

  • Engulfment: How much does my illness engulf my life? Defining myself by my illness?
  • Rejection: Hiding my illness, not sharing it with others.
  • Acceptance:
  • Acknowledging my illness without being overwhelmed by it.
  • Difficulty coping getting engulfed by it, yet acceptance presents with less symptoms!
  • Which comes first?
  • Work on the acceptance, make it happen.
  • Incorporate the identity of illness without having it as my whole identity with enrichment.
  • Breathes less anxiety and depression, less symptoms and less pain.
  • A hyper focus required.

Enrichment: Allow myself to be positive despite the illness, enabling me to grow as a person.

Importance of Grief:

  • Grieve what is lost to us, very important.
  • Some things can be lost ‘forever’.
  • Accept and make peace with that.
  • Don’t allow myself to go into darkness that ‘all is lost’ as it isn’t realistic.
  • If we grieve over it and accept it, it can enrich our lives.
  • Relish and return to things you loved, even if you are not able to participate but enjoy anyway.
  • Example of losing ballet, seeing a ballet concert to enjoy it anyway.
  • Finding a way to validate my love of it that way.
  • Try to reclaim what I have lost and find a way to bring consistency in my life, just a different way.
  • For example: I can watch the ballet from YouTube in my bed if needed to keep the continuity.
  • Finding new ways, new passion.
  • Think in new ways and values as we age, priorities change with life experience with wisdom creating a renewed identity.

Personality Attributes:

  • Types of people is personality
  • Type A, and Hostility: Neurotic can make it more challenging for those with chronic illnesses
  • Optimistic personality makes the chronic illness more bearable with hope and positive thinking, believing a positive outcome will come of the illness and recovery.

DB: I wasn’t able to speak on stage after my chronic illnesses, but I found a way by writing blogs and eventually videos sharing all I have learnt about chronic illness and how to predict, prevent and reverse.

It began as a hobby for me to share my thoughts to others and to help grieve it all and make new pathways after acceptance and enrichment entered my life. My hope is that it will do the same for you.

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