Unconditional Joy and Happiness: Can I Be Happy?
Category : Emotional Healing Hope and Faith
Lecture about Joy and Happiness:
By Dr Jason Han PhD, In 1999
Disclaimer:Â Notes recorded by Debby Blettner
Dr Han asked for a show of hands as to whom in the group was happy.
About 50% of the group responded with a “Yes.”
Life is full of simple pleasures.
An Epicurean – is someone who loves food.
Don’t look outside for happiness, all the ingredients are within you.
You don’t need to be a chef to mix all the ingredients to make happiness.
We are taught money can buy you anything, including happiness.
If so, all rich men would tell you they are all happy.
Optimistic people are happy.
Happy people are people who have:
1) High Self Esteem -they like themselves, they have a good sense of self worth.
3) Optimistic –they are always looking on the bright side.
4) Outgoing – make friends easily, have good communication skills.
Work on yourself to change to become happier!
If you want a good Role model – copy the above points!
When you’re happy you’re NK cells are bubbling over, lots of endorphins!
Let’s be happy!
You are happy because you sing, so reset your nervous system, try assuming a smile.
A frown doesn’t do anything to improve your immune system. It depresses even others immune systems. A smile does wonders for your immune system!
Lift up the corners of your mouth, even pretending does wonders to your immune system!
Endorphins are natural opiates, healing agents, they lower blood pressure, good oxygen therapy.
There are three types of Endorphins, one of those types is 700 times more powerful than morphine!
The Happiness Test:
1) If thing don’t go my way I get very upset. Yes/No
2) I feel good about my body. Yes/No
3) I can accept things the way they are. Yes/No
4) I dislike many people. Yes/No
5) I sometimes wish I had never been born. Yes/No
6) I love sex. Yes/No
7) I like most people. Yes/No
8) I rejoice within myself when someone does well. Yes/No
9) I frequently feel helpless and lost. Yes/No
10) When I make a mistake, I brood over it. Yes/No
Anything less than 7 points in this test means you are not happy!
This test leads you to look at areas where you need to expand on.
“I can accept things the way they are.” If “no”, then work on it. For example, if you get angry then work on it! Be solution oriented, not problem oriented.
Positive affirmations for happiness:
1) I enjoy everything I do.
2) I look forward to each day with great enthusiasm.
3) I have someone to confide in.
4) I love life and life is wonderful.
5) I love my job and I like the people I work with.
6) I am successful in all I do.
Repeat these affirmations 60 times a day to become happier, and to develop a new habit. Listen to the emotion of the words!
What is your Value system? – if you lost all your money, but you have good health and full function of your body, then be happy!
Some parts of India, if you run over a man’s wife he will not be bothered, but if you run over his cow, he will kill you! Different values!
People spend $100,000 or 1\4 of a million on a house, $50,000 on a car, but what about your health?
If you want to be happy – be happy!
LListen to the emotion of the answer to the question, when asking if someone is happy.
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